Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Another Choices...

Lately, i had read a blog of my fren.. talking about choices to face in life. I do agree with that... Life is just about making decisions.... and it's getting tougher and complicated when we are elder. Be wise, we should think the consequences of every decision taken to avoid upsetting anyone. However, is the decision a misery for you? From his say, every decision will lead to 2 choices either feel sorry to urself or feel sorry to others. Well.... life is like dat.. hard to have perfection.. hard to have a both win situation !

Most of us will face the same situation like dat.... you have to sacrifice own happiness for a better ending... or in another hand, you take a likable decision that will hurt your friends feeling... i think it is even more suffered and heart pain to make a decision dat is appalling to others as you will be entitled as a bad guy by the people around.... rumour do spreads fast! Basically, everyone has the right to do their preferred decisions. There is nothing wrong with every decision made as long as it is ethical. I know its hard to accept your friend does something sad on you, Hate on him??!! It will be a lie if you say NO. Wat we can do is take some time to fade away this intense dislike and forgive.... Urghhh.. sounds so fake rite? haha.. no choice lo.. hard to get a good friend!

I am a MY FM radio fans, used to listen to it when i am driving and there are always some meaningful words shared by the artists. I remember one that tells - A teacher draws a dot on the blackboard and ask his student what they have seen. All the students answered together "A dot !" The teacher shakes his head and replies... cant you all see a blackboard? " When others have done a minor mistake, we always try to exaggerate it but forget about his good deed. So, try to look for his goodness and forgive his mistake. Erm... wat if trying very hard to find but ended up with all the bad things and nothing good ler? Then ar... he is a disaster and this fella should be forgotten! Haha...

In my opinion, 时间可以冲淡一切! Just take some time to digest and forget all the sadness... then everything will be fine.. another good day again ! But it wont work on my studies... Aiks... cham loh! so much tests and assignments is due after hari raya break.... what i can do is "watch step move step" 见步行步 lo.... =)

8 comments:

ḈΉΪИ ȽεϰG said...

hm.. the black dot phrase in my.Fm.. yea we tend to exaggerate on peoples minor mistakes, but if we are left in a situation where you have to face this minor mistakes everyday? yes of course things come in pair, good and bad, ying and yang etc. no one can promise a friendship without commiting no offence.. but what can be done when you find yourself being left out indirectly? being ignored unintentionally just cos you dont have a dean's list? and then you express yourself, everyone will be going against you, saying you're sensitive or things like that. people say this friend is the kind i cant afford to lose. i agree partially, bt he's also that kind that i find it hard to live with. i dont want, need a friendship just for the sake of the fact having to face them for a couple of more years

but nonetheless, appreciate that advice :)

KiKi said...

this blog sounds familiar...
haha... if i'm not mistaken is my blog? ha~

Unknown said...

this is very true. i believe time will make everything back to how it is. it's gonna be hard to forget but that the least we could do right. ^^

Keith Tan said...

To Lengz, think positively and everything will be going right =)

To Kiki, Haha... the answer is no, cant u see i mention "his say"? orelse u are a guy.. hehe !

To May, Yep !!! but i think u are great to have someone share your sadness with u.. hehe =) its really coincident met u in genting on friday.. enjoy ur break !

clumsymouse said...

who's blog then?

Anonymous said...

keith dun sad la...life is a cycle of sadness and happiness....can't alwayz get happy de....:Pgood luck 4 assignments and tests...:P

Keith Tan said...

To Clumsymouse, so keypoh of u, hehe... secret =)

To rei, oh, i am not sad la.. just some craps to the people around.. haha... enjoy ur break !

KiKi said...

soli ar... mata sepet a bit...
不小心对号入座~
haha

kiki